Take a walk on the wild side and explore the world of BDSM. Although bondage sex can mean different things to different people, every level of kink is there to be explored so whether you’re looking for sexy handcuffs for entry level restraining, cock and ball bondage to show him who’s boss, or bondage instruments for extreme BDSM play, the options are endless. By exploring your inner dominatrix, add some extra spice to the bedroom as you experiment with new pleasures and spice up your sex life for a night to remember.
If you’re new to the world of BDSM, there’s no rush into buying a full set of BDSM equipment to uncover this exciting side of your sexuality. Any scenario that explores power dynamics can be considered as BDSM, so take the time to consider how that plays a part in your relationship and how this could be developed with our bondage toys. To kick off your sexy bedside drawer collection, here are three key types of BDSM toys which are bound to get you going:
- Chastity belts
For real control over you or your partners’ pleasure, chastity belts can be the ultimate bondage toy. Available for both men and women, chastity belt can help delay or control orgasms, increasing the intensity the longer one is worn. Once thought of as a medieval device, chastity belts are now very much a modern experience and when used correctly, they can be a playful or erotic way to help delay orgasm and make the wearer feel more pleasure when finally removed. Contrary to belief, they aren’t designed to control or dominate your partner as a sign of ownership, instead, they are used by couples as a fun way to spice up their sex lives and build up the sensation in between sex as part of foreplay.
- Bondage rope
The most popular bondage toys are rope and tape bondage, being a firm favourite in the BDSM world. Anything you can put a knot into will be classed as rope bondage, including ropes, scarves, neckties, or even get creative with dressing gown belts; the opportunities are endless. The primary purpose of using BDSM rope bondage is to keep the submissive in order and make sure they can’t escape from you, giving you full control over their pleasure. If you’re a bondage beginner, make sure you don’t tie any rope bondage too tight and avoid putting pressure on pulse points.
- Ball and mouth gags
Keep your noisy submissive lovers’ moans muffled during bondage and add an exciting edge to your role play. When wearing a BDSM gag, this increases arousal of the sub by suppressing your desire to moan and intensifying your helplessness. By restricting your ability to communicate, you rely heavily on your partner for pleasure. For the dominant, silencing your sub allows you to take control with no interruptions, and the hushed moans from the ball gag can enhance your arousal. They are also perfect for taking part in oral sex; have your submissive wear an open mouth gag to prevent their mouth from shutting during play and for you to enter their mouth whenever you like.
